Today I’m starting an experiment for one month. I’m quitting reddit. I’m interested to see how this will affect my life. Ideally I’ll be able to come back to reddit occasionally without becoming a horrible addict again. I’ve been addicted to reddit for over 4 years and it’s seriously affecting my life.
This is hard for me because on one hand, I’ve learned a great deal of useful things from spending my time on reddit.
On the other hand, I waste a lot of time on reddit.
It’s affected my work. I get my work done, but I’ve found that work has become something I do to fill the void between redditing. It should definitely be the other way around. I also don’t look for new things to do or learn at work. Instead of learning about my job, I go learn about something odd and most likely unimportant from reddit.
I’ve been redditing for the majority of my career and am wondering if it is why I’m going nowhere. I just don’t try very hard because there is nothing about my job that is as exciting as what could possibly be going on in reddit.
Sure I’ll still spend time at work doing non-work related things, but I only have a few RSS feeds in my google reader and I can’t access facebook.
Besides work it’s affected my hobbies and other leisure time. I like writing, but find that I sit down to write and open up a window with reddit. I’m currently working on two books, but I constantly stall because I just have to quickly check out reddit.
Whenever I have some down time, I tend to pull out my phone and surf reddit. This is getting to be a bad habit as I find myself surfing reddit more often than usual. Especially in the bathroom and sitting on the couch at home.
It’s also affected my relationships. I don’t really have many friends in real life anymore. I just don’t make an effort to meet people or make time to spend time with my friends. I think this is because I get the feeling of talking to people every day by coming on here and joining in discussions.
I find that I have trouble conversing with my girlfriend and the friends I do have because I feel like they can’t relate to my “reddit” self that I use to communicate on reddit. It’s not that I feel like they are two different people, it’s that I feel like the “real” me is talking on reddit, while it’s just a fake me in real life. It’s like when you are a kid and you feel that the “real” you is the you that hangs out with your friends at school, but the fake one is the face you put on for your parents and authority figures. It’s a small difference, but it’s definitely there.
Sometimes I find myself thinking of things or talking to people and telling myself that I should post it on reddit. This is kind of scary. I already spend too much time thinking about other things while talking to people, I don’t need to add another.
I’ve learned a lot here, but I haven’t gotten any smarter. It seems like there are million tips and ideas here, but not enough information to actually grow. I think this is because everything is just a short read and then you’re on to the next thing. It’s hard to keep enough of an attention span to really learn anything.
I know, this will be hard. I know it’s not for everybody. It might not even be for me. I don’t want to give up reddit forever, but I need to do this experiment to prove that I can get by with out it.
I’m going to be keeping a journal and documenting what happens through this process.
I’m hoping to do some of the following:
Get more work done
Find new projects to work on
Work on my friendships
Work on my relationship
Learn something new
Talk to more people
If it works, great. If it doesn’t, oh well. It’s just a month.
I’ll be back in a month to talk about my results. And we’ll see if I want to come back or quit for good.